You need to....

You need to make sure Brandon goes to bed earlier.  You need to spank him more.  You need to be more consistent.  You need to feed him a gluten free diet, a dye free diet, and whole foods diet.  You need to follow through.  You need to send him to in patient care.  You need to take him off of all the meds.  You need a rainbow star chart.   Blah blah blah.....

And then you all wonder when you ask how things are, I say they are just fine.

You don't get it.  You don't know the fight we fight.  Everything is a fight.  Wiping his ass, washing his hands, flushing the toilet, going to bed, food, homework, EVERYTHING!  We pick our fights, we have to or we wouldn't stop fighting with him.  There would be nothing left of us.  All that's left is a sloppy puddle of who we were anyway.  What's gonna set him off?  I pick what's important and stick with it.  This may mean he didn't have a bath, or do his homework; but let me tell you he did wipe his ass and have an entire can of corn for dinner.

So all you judgemental assholes that don't get.....shut it.  Keep your opinions to yourself.  If I want it, I'll ask. 

And I am just fine....